If you've recently noticed a guy around you acting weird, you're probably wondering why he's doing it and what it could mean.
In this post, I'll show you different ways a man can change his body language and behavior when he's attracted to you.
So do guys act weird when they like you?Yes, men change their body language and behavior when they are around a woman they find attractive. To be sure that a man is attracted to you, you would need to see him show various signs of attraction in his body language and demeanor.
5 signs someone likes you
In fact, when a man becomes attracted to you, there are a number of ways his body language and demeanor will change.
Some of the ways this will change you depend heavily on your personality. However, there are a number of behavioral and body language signs that usually indicate attraction, especially when done together.
How a guy acts weird when he likes you
Below I mention several ways a man changes his body language and behavior when he finds you attractive.
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Feet are actually a good indicator of how a person might be feeling at any given point in time.
People learn how to hide their emotions on their faces, but they rarely think about what their feet might imply.
If you notice that a guy tends to point his feet at you even when he's not standing directly in front of you, it indicates that he finds you attractive.
This is because people tend to point their feet in the direction they want to go or towards the people they care about.
Another positive thing to look out for would be if he points his toes up when he's talking to you and if he starts moving his feet up and down when he notices you.
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When people try to fit into a certain group of people, or when they are with a person they find attractive, they often start mirroring their behavior and body language or that of their crush.
By doing this, you help the people in the group to be more accepting of the person and more willing to let them join the group.
If you notice that he tends to mirror your body language, that would be a positive sign that he finds you attractive.
There are several ways it can reflect your behavior, but some examples might include:
- Mirror your face gestures
- reflect your smile
- reflects your laughter
- Walk at a similar pace and in a similar manner
- Stand and sit in a posture similar to yours
- Speak in a similar tone and at a similar pace as you
- To touch you when you touch him
- Smile back when you smile at him
- Approach you when you approach him
ask friends about you
If a guy finds you attractive and is too nervous to ask you out, he will often ask his friends about you.
If that's the case, he's also likely showing signs of nervousness around you. He is also likely to show signs of anxiety when you are with other men as he wants to be with you.
visual contact
When people develop feelings for each other, they often start by doing something called "looking at each other," which is basically where they hold eye contact the longest.
If you notice that he tends to maintain eye contact with you when he talks to you more than to other people, then I suggest you find him attractive.
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If he finds you attractive, you might find that he touches you more than other people.
It's also possible that he's making excuses to touch you, and that his micro-expressions in his body language are likely to change when he does, out of mild anxiety about how you'll react.
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If he finds you attractive, you may find that he talks to you more than to others in the group.
You'll also likely find that he tends to focus on you when you're talking, and there are plenty of other people talking too.
When he's talking to you, he's likely to ask lots of questions to keep the conversation going, and his responses are likely to be less short answers that don't keep the conversation going.
Voice
When men talk to a woman they find attractive, it's been found that they often speak deeper than usual.
This is probably because it highlights that they have lots of testosterone.
In addition, it has also been found that men occasionally speak at a higher pitch when they are around an attractive woman.
This could be because it shows they don't pose a threat while at the same time allowing them to show they have testosterone, mostly by speaking in a deeper voice.
That is, if you notice that he tends to lower his voice around you, but occasionally speaks in a higher pitched tone, that would be a sign that he finds you attractive.
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When a man talks to a woman he finds attractive, his pupils can really dilate.
If you notice that he tends to have dilated pupils, it indicates that he finds you attractive.
Proximity (conversation and area)
If a guy finds you attractive, you'll probably find that he tends to position himself close to you when the two of you are in a group.
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nervousness
You may find that he is nervous around you.
It's probably because he doesn't want to say or do anything that you don't like and is keen to get a good response from you. He may also not be sure if you like him or not.
There are many ways a man can show signs of nervousness, but some examples might include:
- Rubbing your eyes, nose, face, neck, legs, or arms
- touched neck
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- nervous laughter
- Difficulty maintaining eye contact
- Touching feet and toes
- speak in a higher tone
- Trembling under the eyes and on the lips
Anxious when talking to other men
If a guy finds you attractive, he's probably showing signs of fear of other men he thinks you might like.
Signs of anxiety in this case would likely include many of the above. He's also likely to look your way when you're interacting with other men.
Adjust clothing or hair
If you notice that a guy tends to straighten his clothes or hair as soon as he sees you, it indicates that he finds you attractive.
Defend yourself with other men
If you notice that a guy tends to get defensive when other men are around, it indicates that he's trying not to come across as weak in front of you. This would also indicate that he finds you attractive.
lack of negative signs.
If a guy finds you attractive, he probably wants to avoid seeming aloof.
This means you would likely avoid showing negative body language cues, such as:
- tense jaw
- Cross arms and legs
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- purse the lips
- avoid you
However, keep in mind that men sometimes show negative signs on purpose to make it appear that they are not interested in you so that you think about him more and pursue him.
If so, they'll likely still point their feet at you, stay close to you, have dilated pupils, and hold eye contact with you longer than usual.
Laugh and see if you laugh
When a person is attracted to someone, they often look at them when they are laughing to see if the person they like is laughing too.
If you notice a guy looking at you when he's laughing, it indicates that he finds you attractive.
frequent blinking
When a guy finds you attractive in conversation, you'll notice that he blinks more than usual.
It can be hard to tell if you're blinking more than usual, but consider how often you blink when you're chatting with your friends.
looking at you
A strong sign that a guy finds you attractive is when he tends to look your way.
If he does and you notice, he might look away or smile quickly, too.
Show off your groin
When men are around a woman they find attractive, they usually stand and sit in a way that emphasizes the groin area.
That means if the guy tends to stand with his feet apart and his hands at his sides when he's with you, it suggests he finds you attractive.
A change in your personality.
If you notice that a guy tends to change his behavior when he notices you, it indicates that he has reacted emotionally to you. It could be because he finds you attractive.
upper body in front of you
If a guy finds you attractive, you'll likely notice that he's looking at you with his upper body even if his face is facing in a different direction.
Base plans around you
If a guy is attracted to you, chances are he'll make plans based on when he knows when you're free.
Consider your normal behavior.
If you're trying to figure out what a person's body language or behavior is suggesting, it would help to be aware of what normal body language and behavior look like.
If a guy doesn't tend to change his body language or behavior around you, then that wouldn't be a strong indicator that he finds you attractive, even if he shows signs of attraction in his body language. That is, unless he shows you several strong signs of attraction to you.
However, if he changes his body language and behavior around you, that's a stronger sign that he finds you attractive.
Consider the moment your behavior changes.
Also the moment a boy changes his behavior would be something to consider.
If he tends to change his demeanor and body language when you start talking or when you approach him, that would be a stronger sign that he has feelings for you.
Make sure you don't look at body language cues in isolation.
When trying to understand what a man's body language might be telling you, it's important not to look at individual parts of body language in isolation.
In order to get a more reliable idea of how a man is feeling, it is important to evaluate his body language in relation to body language groups.
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What does it mean when a guy acts differently around you?When a man changes his body language and behavior around you, it could mean that he finds you attractive, doesn't like you, or that you make him nervous. For example, if he's showing signs of attraction, he might change his behavior because he finds you attractive.
If you want to learn more about body language, I would recommend a bookThe Definitive Body Language Book (on Amazon).He shows you how to read body language and understand people's true intentions.